My name is Phyllis Adair DeWitt-VanVleck. I was born in Hammond, Indiana. As our family grew to six children, my mother baked breads and sweet goods to supplement our income. I would carry them around Hammond and sell the goodies out of a basket.
When we moved out of town, to a sand hill, on Ridge Road, in Griffith, Indiana, mom raised chickens. Customers came as far as from Chicago to purchase chickens.
Dad was trained as a classical violinist and suplemented his day job, during the depression, by playing fiddle at night. He even had a program on the radio, for a time. The title was “Dad DeWitt and the Pumpkin Huskers.” My oldest brother, ditched school and taught himself to play guitar. he played and sang on the radio show and, at 16, he already had “groupies.”
At Christmas my aunt, the band members wives and we girls sang along.
The final permanent member of our family was my paternal Grandfather, John Edward DeWitt. But, it seemed there was a constant stream of relatives and musicians through our home.
About my brotherss: Richard Edward “Ed” DeWitt, was the oldest. He eventually taught himself to play violin and several other instruments and supplemented his income as an adult with his music. He passed away a few years ago. Donald Wesley DeWitt, my younger brother, was killed during the Battle of the Bulge when his weapon exploded, due to the American bullet makers loaded the shells with TNT, when they ran out of gun powder.
Sisters included: Beverly Ada DeWitt-McCarter, who lives in Tennessee. Irma Lee “Sally” Dewitt-Walters, who lives in northern Indiana and Patricia Anne “Patsy” De-Witt-Dixon. Patsy lost her home to Hurricane Katrina and passed away in 2006 from lung cancer.
I married Harold Guy VanVleck and got two for the price of one, in his adorable little daughter, Evelyn Louise VanVleck-Hrusovszky. She lives in Arizona.
We added David Merle VanVleck and Sheryl Adair VanVleck to our family. David’s death, in 1990 at age 46, left a hole in our lives and hearts.
Harold and I retired to Baxter County Arkansas, where I became very involved in the poetry community and served as President of The Baxter County Poets. When my husband fell ill, in 1998, we moved in with daughter, Sheryl, who was then living in Wyoming. My husband died three months later.
Eventually, we moved back to Indiana, and when Sheryl took in three of her grandson’s, I decided it was time for my own apartment.
hi,how are you
i am langitjiwa form indonesia
Just fine, langitjiwa, are you interested in poetry?
I found out about your poetry blog from the WordPress poetry page, “For Derrick and Mary”. Then I read this other poem you wrote “DANCING BAREFOOT IN THE GRASS”. It has such a calming effect. I love poems which paint vivid pictures and this one is even more wonderful because of the moonlight shining on it. I look forward to reading more of your poems. Good wishes and take care.
Surja (from Krishnanagar, India)
Surja:
Do you have a poetry blog or home page that I can read?
I like reading poetry more than writing them. I do write sometimes on Facebook. This is the link to the “My Notes” page. I think you have to sign up on Facebook to see the page.
http://www.facebook.com/notes.php?id=784029409
Hello there, I ran across your web page one day and a name jumped out at me, it was your sister Patricia’s. She was a special lady. You write beautiful poetry. Many have made me tear up and many have made me smile.
Angie:
Thank you for the compliment.
How did you know my sister Pat?
I dated Richard and lived with her and Mr. Ken for awhile. They were both very special and good to me. They treated me like a daughter. You may email me privately if you like. I hope everyone is doing alright.
Hi,
Just checking in, Phyllis. I love the poem on the front page, today. After reading your poems I am once again inspired to write a few more. The past year has been a dry one for me as far as poetry is concerned, but maybe the Muse will come back–especially if I wake her up by reading the writings of others like you, Dear Friend.
Blessings
Hi – I just read through your latest posts and am truly impressed. I wanted to tell you which piece was my favorite, but it’s just too hard to narrow it down to one. So for all your talented works – BRAVO!!!!
Christmas Carol
Hello Phyllis,
I’m a regular reader as you might know, and I’ve read your copyright notice on this page. I very much want to use a stanza from today’s poem (My Favorite Church) in a blog post I’m readying for publication on My Wintersong. I will give you full attribution for the four lines as well as linking back. Since I’m unable to contact you through email, I’m asking you to let me know if you have any objection. The lines in question:
Out on the east side of the Church,
Fenced-in hallowed ground
Holds crumbling markers for the dead,
Where family names are found.
It there is no objection, I will use those lines under the terms listed in a post later in the week. Thank you for a few moments of quiet reflection each morning I spend with your poems.
Alice of Wintersong
http://wintersong.wordpress.com
I love your site. Keep it up !
Thank you so much for your comment.
Love you Grandma!! You seem to have quite the following.
Love,
Chris
Chris, I hope you saw the poetry for your birthday. Hope you had a great one. I am trying to list each child’s poem on their birthday, although I have missed a few.
I really enjoy the comments on my poetry. It is something I love so much that it is easy for me to do; even though I can spend days and days on one poem and seem to revise them constantly, even years later.
you revise your poetry years later? i thought i was the only one who did things like that. sometimes i wish i could remember how it was in the beginning; it may have been better. but yours are always just right!
Hi again Alice, I am never done with a poem. My daughter says I am a bit compulsive, but I just want it right and there always seems to be room for improvement. Thank you, very much for your comment. I have a bit of a confidence problem and it just makes my day for you to say they are “just right.”